The Refined Man is the best shop in Thurston county for men’s grooming and therapeutic massage. Why should you get a massage at The Refined Man? The very best answer is Chanel. She is amazing. Her knowledge of massage technique, genuine concern for the well being of her client, and friendly demeanor will keep me coming back.
As a 21 year veteran of the Marine Corps & Army, I have battled arthritis in many areas of my body. About one year ago the pain became intolerable. Then one day, while getting my hair cut at The Refined Man, Shawna recommended I try a session with their massage therapist, Chantel. I made the appointment and it was a game changer!... read full review
June 2026
Easily the best haircut service I ever got. I have curly hair so I’m naturally picky with where I go, and I have absolutely no regrets with The Refined Man. For only $60, I not only got my hair shampooed and conditioned with a hot towel, got a great haircut, but the customer service was impeccable. I can’t remember her name, but she had shorter black hair. Give her a raise!! Super engaging, funny, and made time fly by throughout the service. Thank you guys, I’ll definitely be back!
May 2026
Great experience overall. Every staff member was welcoming from the moment I walked in.
Lauren was kind, helpful, and walked me through everything. I came in with zero idea what I wanted, no clue what to even ask for when it came to a haircut and beard trim. She made it completely stress-free. I walked out with the best haircut I’ve had in a long time and actually knew where to start with my beard for once.
Already booked my next two appointments. Glad I stepped outside my comfort zone and gave this place a shot.
The Refined Man is the best shop in Thurston county for men’s grooming and therapeutic massage. Why should you get a massage at The Refined Man? The very best answer is Chanel. She is amazing. Her knowledge of massage technique, genuine concern for the well being of her client, and friendly demeanor will keep me coming back. As a 21 year veteran of the Marine Corps & Army, I have battled arthritis in many areas of my body. About one year ago the pain became intolerable. Then one day, while getting my hair cut at The Refined Man, Shawna recommended I try a session with their massage therapist, Chantel. I made the appointment and it was a game changer!... read full review
Easily the best haircut service I ever got. I have curly hair so I’m naturally picky with where I go, and I have absolutely no regrets with The Refined Man. For only $60, I not only got my hair shampooed and conditioned with a hot towel, got a great haircut, but the customer service was impeccable. I can’t remember her name, but she had shorter black hair. Give her a raise!! Super engaging, funny, and made time fly by throughout the service. Thank you guys, I’ll definitely be back!
Great experience overall. Every staff member was welcoming from the moment I walked in.
Lauren was kind, helpful, and walked me through everything. I came in with zero idea what I wanted, no clue what to even ask for when it came to a haircut and beard trim. She made it completely stress-free. I walked out with the best haircut I’ve had in a long time and actually knew where to start with my beard for once.
Already booked my next two appointments. Glad I stepped outside my comfort zone and gave this place a shot.